"Sorry,butIdon'tagreewithyou..."Thisisusuallyfollowedby...

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"Sorry,But I don't agree with you ..."This is usually followed by unbearable silence and angry tears.I've always found it difficult to disagree with someone,because I don't want to lose a friend.I've found it even harder to accept it when someone disagrees with me,because my ego（自尊心）is hurt.

Before the other person gets a chance to explain why she disagrees with me,my usual response would be,"If you aren't able to see my point of view,then what you think isn't worth my time or consideration,either."But now I've come to realize that when a friend disagrees with me,sometimes she is simply saying,"I don't agree with the way things are done."She still respects me as a person,and is only pointing out a better way to look at a ver, there may be times when my friend disagrees with me because I'm against the 's when need to listen to what she says.

I've learned that one way to help my friend is for me to be open and honest with the other to voice my thoughts and listen to the other e we can't control how a person will respond to our views,we must learn to disagree with our friends in will never feel that we are better than the other that will help us to be less emotional,and more objective in the way we express our the same way,we can also stay open to feedback（反馈）from others,knowing that our friends may be correcting us in love.

Good friendships build each other up,sometimes through disagreements and honest gh I don't like being disagreed with,I'm starting to see the value of such disagreements.

author has found it difficult to disagree with someone because       .

is a friendly person                               usually hides his ideas

has no mind of his own                           wants to keep the friendship

a friend disagreed with him,the author used to       .

unhappy                                          e with the friend

k up with the friend                          ain things calmly

author will listen to a friend when       .

is against the truth                                doesn't tell the truth

is respected by a friend                                   does things in the wrong way

does the author mainly talk about in the text?

to keep friendship.                                to avoid hurting a friend.

to express disagreements.                          to deal with disagreements.

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